“Love doesn’t get healthier by accident. It gets healthier by honesty.”

Whether it’s a partner, a friend, a parent, or a situationship you know you should’ve ended three red flags ago… we all struggle with boundaries.

This space is for the questions that sound like:

• “Am I being unreasonable?”
• “Why does this keep happening?”
• “How do I say this without hurting them?”
• “Why do I feel guilty for wanting something basic?”

Boundaries aren’t walls — they’re doors with locks that you control. And communication isn’t just talking — it’s clarity, consistency, and saying the quiet part out loud.

Maybe you’re always the one who over-gives. Maybe you’re stuck in people-pleasing mode. Maybe you’re scared that if you finally speak up, they’ll leave… or see a version of you that isn’t “easy” anymore.

Here’s the Jessi truth: you are allowed to take up space, have needs, change your mind, and say “no” without writing a five-paragraph apology afterward.

What we work on in this vibe

• Learning the difference between a boundary and a threat
• How to say what you mean without blowing everything up
• Letting go of guilt around “being too much” or “too needy”
• Recognizing patterns: why you attract the same dynamics over and over
• Protecting your peace without shutting people out completely

If you’re feeling unheard, misunderstood, drained, or confused… this is your corner of the internet to sit down with me and untangle the knots.

Want to write to Jessi?

Bring me:

• The situation (what’s actually happening)
• What you’ve tried so far
• What you’re afraid will happen if you speak up
• What you secretly wish you could say or do

I’ll help you find the words, the boundaries, and the backbone to back them up — with love, clarity, and maybe a tiny bit of sass.

When in doubt? If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive. Let’s learn how to say so.